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By Anon

Part of the issue is that there are at least three meanings for the terms "natural" or "natural game" floating around out there.

Meaning 1. Somebody who is good at picking up chicks without any training.

A natural is that one in 100,000 guy who is good at picking up chicks without PUA training. They are being themselves because who they are just happens to be what women want.

Meaning 2: Bringing out some (undefined) real you to the surface even if you aren't good at picking up women. This somehow makes you a natural even if you aren't one. Sounds like BS...

Meaning 3: Vibing, being intuitive, going without preparation, being in the flow, having no method, etc. Ok, we can see where this will get AFCs

People are out there trying to teach 'Natural game' to guys who are not the one in 100,000 aren't being honest about their marketing.

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Dance Floor Game By Craig

"Found this in some archives, and thought it would be great to get this out to the mainstream once more. I had lunch with Craig from Double Your Dating and he KNOWS what game is all about. Many of the underlying principles of Mystery Method and Double Your Dating originally come from him."

Ever since I was on Elimidate people have been hounding me about my dance floor routines, so being the nice guy that I am I decided to type them up. Here you go guys. Enjoy. The dance floor is a huge part of my closing game and I hope this helps you guys out there.

DANCE FLOOR APPROACHES

When I first started going to clubs I used to see so much action going down on the dance floor that I thought that was where it was at. What I didn't realize is that most of the people that were making out on the dance floor had met off of the dance floor. Since I didn't know any better, I put in a ton of effort to learn how to meet girls on the floor, but now I rarely use any of my techniques, since my other methods are more effective.

I've found that even the best dance floor approaches have a maximum 75% success rate. No matter what you do, what you look like, or how good of a dancer you are, you can expect to get rejected 25% of the time or more. Compare this to the success rate of going up to a girl at the bar and making her laugh, and it's a no-brainer. Plus if you get rejected by a girl on the dance floor it lowers your chances of making something happen when you do see her again.

The skills to pull off a dance floor approach will still come into play in certain situations, like loud nightclubs, or a huge party atmosphere. I'm convinced that you can survive off of the dance floor alone on Spring Break Trips or in Las Vegas. This stuff is also great for the guys out there who are meeting girls that are under 21. These approaches are all you need to get the ball rolling with younger women.

THE BUTT BUMP

The Butt Bump is a very innocent opener and definitely has the highest success rate of the dancing approaches. When you are dancing next to the girl you like, stand side by side and start playfully bumping you butt against hers. Sounds easy, and it is. I've never done this without the girl cracking a HUGE smile and getting into it. They love it! After the third or fourth bump turn to face her...Hopefully she will do the same, and BAM! You're dancing! You can also use the Butt Bump when you're standing next to a girl at the bar to start up a conversation, or to liven things up with a girl you are already dancing with

THE ASSHOLE DANCE OPENER

When I was younger I was very aggressive on the dance floor, and that is how the Asshole Dance Opener came about.

I was really tired of going to clubs and seeing the girls dancing together like lesbians. Most of the time when I would try to squeeze in between the girls would only get closet together and block me. More problems arose when I would try to dance with just one of the girls, because her friend would get jealous and pull her friend away.

My solution is field-tested and has good results if you have the right attitude. Save this technique for a really crowded dance floor. Make your way up to the girls without making any eye contact, and like an asshole motion with your hands for them to spread apart so you can get through. They will back away from each other, roll their eyes and think, "Who does this asshole think he is?" That's when you show them!

As soon as they spread apart, take one step so you're in between them, and start groovin like there's no tomorrow! If you do it right you will soon you will be freaking both girls to the amazement of anyone who's watching! Turn towards the one you want and let the other one grind on your back. It's great to be the man!

A more modest approach is to smile at them and say excuse me, yet still look like you are just passing through. Experiment with both and see what works best for you.

I will never forget the night I discovered this move. I was at a club and the dance floor was packed. After a short dance session I decided to grab another drink at the bar. On my way off the floor I saw these two gorgeous girls dancing together getting super freaky. They had a tight circle of guys around them all TRYING to get a piece of the action, with absolutely no luck. I walked up said, "Excuse me", to the two schmucks closest to me and broke in with Asshole Dance Opener. It was awesome! I had ten chumps cheering me on, wondering how I did it, not to mention two fine girls freaking me from front to back!

DANCE FLOOR SKILLS - WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU GET THERE

Dance floor skills are essential to any man's game, whether you are at a club or at a wedding. If you don't know how to dance I suggest you watch the movie "Save the Last Dance" and watch how the main character dances. Watch how he is always dancing to the beat and always in control, and practice! The time you spend dancing alone in front of your TV set will pay off, trust me!

One thing that has helped my dance floor skills unexpectedly was a beginning swing-dance course in college. I only remember 3 moves but I use them all of the time! I definitely recommend you take a few classes if you are serious about being the man on the dance floor. It will really help your overall dancing skills, and I'm sure there will be one or two hotties in the class with you that you can practice on. No excuses!

Once you have to basic skills down, I highly recommend taking girls to the dance floor as part of your game. It's a great way to amp up the attraction.

One of my favorite moves is to say to a girl, "So, do you know how to dance?" If she says "Yes" I say, "Prove it!...Let's go!" and I take her by the hand and lead her onto the floor.

They say that dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal pleasure, and you will find that there is no better place to turn up the heat then in the middle of the dance floor.

When your getting down it's only natural to make lots of physical contact. Always remember the Double Your Dating 2 steps forward 1 step back principle. Get close for awhile, then back off and dance a few feet away from her. Then get a little closer for a little longer, then pull away again. This REALLY drives the girls nuts.

If things are getting really hot, you can use the Double Your Dating kiss test. Look in her eyes and take one hand and stroke her hair back right above her ear. If she holds eye contact with you, go in slowly and give her a smooth kiss, then pull away. Say, "Yum...You're a good kisser!" and give her some more.

I used to go to a bar that would end every night by playing 2 slow songs. I knew exactly what time they shut down, and my routine was to bring a girl out onto the floor right before I knew they were coming up. That way when the slow song came on we were already out there! It was only natural for us to keep grooving to the slow music, and since I had already turned up the heat by grinding during the last few fast songs, it was very easy to start making out right there. I can't tell you how many women I got at this bar. I recommend finding out which clubs do this and what time they shut down, and incorporating it into your game. It's a proven winner!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Hall - The Users Manual For The Brain
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Best Example Of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus

HERE'S A PRIME EXAMPLE OF "MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS" OFFERED BY AN ENGLISH PROFESSOR FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF PHOENIX:

The professor told his class one day:

"Today we will experiment with a new form called the tandem story. The process is simple. Each person will pair off with the person sitting to his or her immediate right. As homework tonight, one of you will write the first paragraph of a short story. You will e-mail your partner that paragraph and send another copy to me.

The partner will read the first paragraph and then add another paragraph to the story and send it back, also sending another copy to me.

The first person will then add a third paragraph, and so on back-and-forth.

Remember to re-read what has been written each time in order to keep the story coherent. There is to be absolutely NO talking outside of the e-mails and anything you wish to say must be written in the e-mail. The story is over when both agree a conclusion has been reached."

The following was actually turned in by two of his English students Rebecca and Gary:

THE STORY

(FIRST PARAGRAPH BY REBECCA)

At first, Laurie couldn't decide which kind of tea she wanted. The chamomile, which used to be her favourite for lazy evenings at home, now reminded her too much of Carl, who once said, in happier times, that he liked chamomile. But she felt she must now, at all costs, keep her mind off Carl. His possessiveness was suffocating, and if she thought about him too much her asthma started acting up again. So chamomile was out of the question.

(SECOND PARAGRAPH BY GARY)

Meanwhile, Advance Sergeant Carl Harris, leader of the attack squadron now in orbit over Skylon 4, had more important things to think about than the neuroses of an air-headed asthmatic bimbo named Laurie with whom he had spent one sweaty night over a year ago. "A.S. Harris to Geostation 17," he said into his transgalactic communicator. "Polar orbit established. No sign of resistance so far" But before he could sign off a bluish particle beam flashed out of nowhere and blasted a hole through his ship's cargo bay. The jolt from the direct hit sent him flying out of his seat and across the cockpit.

(REBECCA)

He bumped his head and died almost immediately, but not before he felt one last pang of regret for psychically brutalizing the one woman who had ever had feelings for him. Soon afterwards, Earth stopped its pointless hostilities towards the peaceful farmers of Skylon 4. "Congress Passes Law Permanently Abolishing War and Space Travel," Laurie read in her newspaper one morning. The news simultaneously excited her and bored her. She stared out the window, dreaming of her youth, when the days had passed unhurried and carefree, with no newspaper to read, no television to distract her from her sense of innocent wonder at all the beautiful things around her. "Why must one lose one's innocence to become a woman?" she pondered wistfully.

(GARY)

Little did she know, but she had less than 10 seconds to live. Thousands of miles above the city, the Anu'udrian mothership launched the first of its lithium fusion missiles. The dim-witted wimpy peaceniks who pushed the Unilateral Aerospace Disarmament Treaty through the congress had left Earth a defenseless target for the hostile alien empires who were determined to destroy the human race. Within two hours after the passage of the treaty the Anu'udrian ships were on course for Earth, carrying enough firepower to pulverize the entire planet. With no one to stop them, they swiftly initiated their diabolical plan. The lithium fusion missile entered the atmosphere unimpeded. The President, in his top-secret mobile submarine headquarters on the ocean floor off

the coast of Guam, felt the inconceivably massive explosion, which vaporized poor, stupid Laurie.

(REBECCA)

This is absurd. I refuse to continue this mockery of literature. My writing partner is a violent, chauvinistic semi-literate adolescent.

(GARY)

Yeah? Well, my writing partner is a self-centered, tedious neurotic whose attempts at writing are the literary equivalent of Valium. "Oh, shall I have chamomile tea? Or shall I have some other sort of F-KING TEA? Oh no, what am I to do? I'm such an air headed bimbo who reads too many Danielle Steele novels!"

(REBECCA)

Asshole.

(GARY)

Bitch

(REBECCA)

F K YOU - YOU NEANDERTHAL!

(GARY)

Go drink some tea - whore.

(TEACHER)

A+ - I really liked this one.

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Dream Girl Natalie Dormer

I first came across Natalie Dormer in the British series The Tudors where she played King Henry's future wife Anne Boleyn. She's not my typical beauty, but there was something about her acting that made her even more attractive. I think it's because she played this hard to get woman who eventually succumbs to the King. Get The Tudors torrent and watch it.

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Why Cant I Stop Flirting

SUSAN J. ELLIOTT IS A MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER, GRIEF THERAPIST, EXPERT COMMENTATOR, ATTORNEY, POPULAR BLOGGER, AND AUTHOR OF GETTING PAST YOUR BREAKUP: HOW TO TURN A DEVASTATING BREAKUP INTO THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU_.

READER QUESTION 1: WHY CAN'T I STOP FLIRTING?

I am dating a woman who is fantastic - granted, she's not perfect in the looks department, but what she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for with her personality and loyalty.

So what's the problem?

I find myself checking out other women constantly and even flirt way more than I should. I don't know why I do this; Tina is phenomenal and I am so lucky to have her. So why am I acting like this? Why do I desire all these other women? Please help me.

'TREVOR'

SUSAN J. ELLIOTTS ANSWER:

Whenever you are dating someone who is terrific yet you are attracted to a lot of other people, there could be a number of things going on for you. The only one who can figure it out is you, but you might not have the questions, let alone the answers!

So let me help you out with some of the questions to ask yourself. You might not have the answers right away, but here are some things to ponder:

1. IS IT A HISTORICAL ISSUE? Have you had this issue before? If so, when did it happen and how did you resolve it? If not, why do you think it is happening now?

2. IS IT SOME KIND OF COMMITMENTPHOBIA? That's about desiring women you don't have rather than being happy with the one you do have It's also about not being ready to settle down or not being ready to commit. Those things will keep you picking apart your partner no matter who she is.

3. IS IT A FIDELITY ISSUES? Can you stay true (in every sense of the word) to one woman?

4. IS IT A VANITY ISSUE? Is it because you know you have a terrific woman but she's not as attractive as you'd like?

5. IS IT AN INSECURITY ISSUE? Do you need to prove you are still attractive to attractive women... that you could have a more attractive woman if you want?

6. IS IT AN IMMATURITY ISSUE? You're just not ready to stop flirting! It has nothing to do with your current girlfriend.

You need to think about and answer these questions. Figure out what is behind all the flirting and desiring. If you answer that you do want to be with Tina and no one else, the key is going to be to reign yourself in.

You need to cultivate self-discipline and self-respect, and respect for Tina and the relationship. It's not enough to just commit to seeing only one person; you have to commit to reign in your flirty ways.

Flirting and desiring are fine if you're single, but the behavior needs to stop when you are in a relationship with someone you care about. The question is: can you stop? Will you stop?

Many people think that if they are with the right person, these behaviors will just go away. Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. But whenever you are engaging in behaviors you're not proud of or want to stop, you have to examine yourself and see if you are just lacking in self-discipline or you're not with the right person.

Think about the answers to the questions above and if Tina is the one for you, make an effort to stop the flirtation and shut off the desires when they pop up. If it's an on-going battle, you may need to look again at your relationship and see if it's what you really want. Good luck.

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Creating Tension For A Great First Kiss By David Wygant

Typically good relationships have some element of surprise and the unexpected in them. The key to this is tension. TENSION IS CRITICAL in the early stages of a relationship and can be a healthy stepping stone in establishing a deeper connection down the road. While it may seem counter-productive, tension actually helps to create a positive environment. Here are a few tips on how to create tension in the first kiss.

In a new relationship, most men make the mistake of rushing forward like Speedy Gonzales, and inadvertently they end up killing tension. Like guiding a sailboat on a placid lake, they assume everything is going just fine and forget that all the fun and memories are created when you survive a stormy sea. A relationship without tension is like a boat on a placid lake -ultimately it creates a status quo experience, and nobody wants to be just status quo.

IMAGINE A ROMANTIC EVENING at your place with your intended over a bottle of wine. If you are like most men, then you will simply wait for the wine to take affect to see how far things will go. However, a far better way to go about things is to use the evening as an opportunity to create tension, thus establishing a stronger foundation for your future relationship together. Here is how you need to play out the scenario to create tension:

You: Lean over to casually play with her hair while talking to her.

Her: She seems not to mind as we continue to talk.

You: Intentionally stop playing with her hair.

You: Then wait a minute and start playing with her hair again.

Her: She reacts to this by smiling while you continue to chat.

You: Stop playing with her hair and look into her eyes.

Her: She puts her hand on your leg and starts caressing it.

You: Start playing more intensely with her hair and slowly move into give her a soft kiss on each cheek, and the pull back for a moment to create tension. Then lean in to give her a slow kiss on the lips.

You: Next, you stop kissing her while still playing with her hair. (Note: You are pulling back with the kissing while still moving forward.)

You: Lean to kiss her again and after a few moments (maybe 30 seconds), You will feel her energy opening up indicated by the pressure of her lips now pressing on yours. They key here is that she is initiating the pressure.

You: Gently pull the pressure of your lips and pull your lips back which triggers her increasing the pressure.

With glasses fogging over, I think you have the idea of what I am talking about here. The idea is that the constant "push and pull" creates in her the desire of continually wanting more. It amps up the chemistry.

On a deeper level you are also sending information that you are a patient man that is self-disciplined. Self-disciplined men are more attractive to women because they are more likely to have self-discipline in other areas of life which is a necessary trait for success.

Pulling back and pushing forward also has the added benefit of sending mixed signals to the nervous system which keeps it from being able to fully adjust, with the end result of feeling wonderful to the receiver. Remember, one thing you should do when being physical with a women is to be consistently inconsistent. This is one of the few forms of inconsistency that she will greatly appreciate.

Read more from David Wygant, at his website and blog.

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Nice Guys Do It Too

I’m talking about online dating, of course. When the phenomenon of online dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted varieties.

That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online dating is gone. Online dating has gone main stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online dating has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.

Let’s face it...we are busy guys. We just simply do not have the time, the energy, or the financial where-with-all to date several nights each week while we look for the “one”. You can sort through hundreds of profiles in a month for less money than you would spend on one evening out, thus, saving time and money. We use the internet to save ourselves time and money for a lot of things like investments, shopping, medical information, and communications.

Why not make use of such a useful tool for our social and personal lives as well? You could find the love of your life. At the very least, you will meet some interesting people and possibly make some lasting friendships. It’s easy to get started. All you need is a computer and an internet connection. You’ll need to search for online dating services that meet your specific needs. They are many and varied.

Join one or two. Then you’ll need to write a great profile, upload a recent picture of yourself and start making and answering contacts. That really is all there is to it...that and patience.

There is a saying that "you never get a second chance to make a good first impression." With that in mind, it is vital to be fully prepared to make a great impression on each date you go on. Here are 10 tips for men on dating success and making an impression that will last.

- Compliment Her. The first thing to say to her is you look beautiful before you even ask how she is. Keep up the compliments throughout your date, but do not go over board (3-4 for the night should be more than enough). A woman loves to be complimented, to feel beautiful and to think that you are attracted to her. The more sincere and observant your compliment, the bigger impact it will have. But remember again not to go overboard. More than four compliments may make you appear fake and not real.

- Listen to Her and Ask Questions. Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves. But you do have to get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more importantly listen to what she has to say. A woman is attracted to a man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and letting her talk than talking yourself.

- Prepare for the Conversation. The last thing you want is to be sitting at a meal with nothing to talk about. Think about your date and what you would like to know about her. You may think that it is easy to talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask or that you will automatically have the answers but until you are in the situation, you have no idea what it will be like. Avoid talking about past relationships or other women while on the date. Keep your focus, attention, and conversation fully on her.

Don’t wait any longer to start your new and interesting social life. Miss or Ms. “Right” could be only a few clicks of the mouse away.

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5 Reasons To Beware Of Girls Without Girlfriends

Most women rely on their close girlfriends as a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board for life's dramas and for gossip sessions on the dirty details of new crushes. Women who don't have female friends, don't have them for a reason. When you meet a girl without lady besties, it's a red flag that she may get in your way of finding love. If you're a single lady out in the dating scene, beware of girls without girlfriends.(My Boys image)

SHE'S A SERIAL FLIRT. She will have no qualms about flirting with the guy you've been crushing on for weeks at a party. Right in front of you.

SHE "CLAIMS" MEN. You both may have met him a only a few hours ago at the bar, but she already made it clear to you (and anyone else who will listen) that she has set her sights on him, so back off.

SHE NEVER PLAYS MATCHMAKER. This woman puts herself first. She won't ever set you up with her cute single friend, even though she claims she isn't in love with him and she has a boyfriend. She doesn't share well.

SHE'S BFF WITH THE GUYS. She's always hanging out with dudes. This is the girl who's been friends with your new crush or boyfriend for years, yet she never makes an attempt to befriend you. Even though you've tried and tried to get to know her.

SHE BLINDSIDES MEN. Don't waste the time complaining about her or her recent behavior to your guy. He will never, ever, see your point. "What, Kirsten? I don't see why you hate her so much, she's so nice."

Do you think girls without girlfriends make dating harder for other single girls? xo

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Dance Floor Game By Craig

DANCE FLOOR APPROACHES

THE BUTT BUMP

THE ASSHOLE DANCE OPENER

DANCE FLOOR SKILLS - WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU GET THERE

Best Example Of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus

The professor told his class one day:

THE STORY

Bitch

(TEACHER)

A+ - I really liked this one.

Dream Girl Natalie Dormer

Why Cant I Stop Flirting

SUSAN J. ELLIOTTS ANSWER:

Creating Tension For A Great First Kiss By David Wygant

Read more from David Wygant, at his website and blog.

Nice Guys Do It Too

5 Reasons To Beware Of Girls Without Girlfriends

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DANCE FLOOR APPROACHES

THE BUTT BUMP

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DANCE FLOOR SKILLS - WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU GET THERE

The professor told his class one day:

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Bitch

(TEACHER) A+ - I really liked this one.

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A+ - I really liked this one.