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Maximizing Your Email Response Rate With Online Dating

I have 3 questions for you:
1) How many e-mails does it take to get one RESPONSE from a woman on an online dating site?

2) How many responses does it take to get a woman's PHONE NUMBER?

3) How many phone numbers (and phone calls) does it require to get a woman interested enough to GO ON A DATE with you?

In a nutshell, how long does it take you to get one date through the online dating sites?

If you're like most men, it takes dozens of e-mails (and sometimes, hundreds) to get one response, if any.

That's because most women who are at least decently attractive get 30 to 50 e-mails a day from men, and the ones who are very attractive get even more.

As a result, they delete most of their incoming e-mail unless there's something in them that stops them dead in their tracks.

This may be the reason why 97% of the men who join online dating sites quit within the first 3 months, according to Jupiter Research.

They spend hours online fishing for women, but they get only a few bites, if any - and usually, they're from women who aren't desirable to them.

Let's analyze the numbers a bit further.

If you're like most men, it would take 5 email responses from women (or more) to get one phone number. And it would take 10 phone numbers (and phone calls) to get one woman to go on a date with you.

All told, it would take hundreds of e-mails to generate the responses and phone numbers that will result in a single date.

And that's an undertaking that takes HOURS to do. The question remains: Is it really worth HOURS of your time to get a single date through the online dating sites?

At least one guy I know has found the whole online dating process too tedious that he said, "It's enough to drive men to a house of prostitution to get away from the hassle of getting dates online."

Now how about you? How does your batting average compare with these average Joes? Are you doing any better?

What if I told you that in just 20 minutes per week, I can show you how to get more dates than you can handle?

The key is to maximize every single interaction you have with women on the online dating sites so that you can have MORE RESULTS IN LESS TIME - and that's exactly what I show you in my Insider Internet Dating program.

I also show you how I easily get 30 to 50 dates a month when other men average 1 or 2 a month - if they're lucky..

Now, imagine being in front of your computer, logging onto an online dating site and finding a drop-dead gorgeous woman that you're really interested in.

I'll show you how you can easily

* Spend just 2 minutes typing out an e-mail to her that will make her instantly interested in you and give you her phone number.

* Call her on the phone without fear or nervousness, and in under 15 minutes, get her to say "Yes" to a date with you

* Get her out on a date, wherein she not only enjoys being with you but feels strangely intimate with you -- even if it's only your first date

* Get her to be attracted to you - even if you're an average-looking or physically unattractive guy - and want to hold hands with you, kiss you, and maybe agree to a 'more physical' encounter

You can just glide effortlessly through the above steps - and get date after date with any woman you want whenever you want -- when you get your hands on my Insider Internet Dating program.

It's as easy as following a paint-by-numbers system - and when you follow it, you're guaranteed to get dates every time.

So what are you waiting for?

Try the Insider Internet Dating program risk-free for 45 days. If it doesn't do for you everything I said it would do, I want you to return it for a full refund - and keep the free bonus that I provide with your purchase.

There's nothing to lose - except a life with no dates.

Dave M

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POSITIVE PARENTING allows parents the ability to raise happier, healthier kids. Kids raised using a positive parenting approach have strong self esteem, confidence, and more contentment in their lives. You can instill core strength in your children by using some of the following positive parenting ideas.

1. ENVISIONING THE FUTURE WITH YOUR CHILDREN can help them learn motivation. When you talk about and think about long-term goals as well as the steps it takes to achieve those goals, your children can conceive of their own ability to achieve and feel confident in their own ability. However, it's important not to only worry about the future but to enjoy the now.

2. LIVING MINDFULLY. Teaching your children to think about and envision their future success is important, but so is helping them learn to enjoy the simple, every day moments of life. In fact, living mindfully can help your children be grateful for what they have.

3. SUPPORTIVE RELATIONSHIPS: Promoting supportive relationships with family and friends is very important to helping your children feel safe, secure, and successful. It imbues a sense of belonging that helps children thrive. Parents benefit as well from having access to supportive networks of friends and families.

4. LIVING OPTIMISTICALLY: Setting the example by doing this yourself as well as teaching your children how to live optimistically by believing in possibilities and hope will help your children to have more confidence.

Building these core strengths into your children's mental makeup are definitive ways you can help empower your children to lead successful, content lives. Not only do children who demonstrate these strengths fare better throughout childhood by being stronger students who suffer less from negative self image, depression, and academic struggle, but these strengths can carry them through life more successfully as well.

Additional core strengths you should focus on when POSITIVE PARENTING include:

Resilience: Teaching your children to react with positivity to the experiences that they have in their lives can help them learn resilience. Resilience is a key strength that promotes tenacity and determination.

Self awareness: Parents who demonstrate a willingness to take care of themselves - eating right, exercising, taking time for themselves - pass on these traits to their children. Being self-aware and capable of recognizing and meeting your own needs is a critical strength.

Developing these core strengths in your children requires you to embrace them in yourself as well. No matter what you try to teach your kids, they will mimic your behavior. Choosing to live with positivity in your life will help your children embrace doing so as well.

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Leadership, as a whole, is about creating a compelling vision and driving people to achieve it. Businesses that don't have this capability or skill, may not survive in today's unstable economy. For this reason more and more businesses should now be focusing on developing their leaders. In my view, leadership is key for everyone, in terms of how they lead their own lives, through to world decision makers who lead radical and global change.

You might think that like the essence of entrepreneurial flair real leadership skills are born and not made but the truth is that leadership can be taught and can be coached, in you. What we will look at below are three aspects of great leadership and some of the NLP tools that you can use to enhance your leadership skills

LEADING YOURSELF

To enable you to lead others first you must lead yourself, so that you are able to get out of life what you want and so that you can be a model of excellence for others. The first step in leading yourself is to learn to live at cause rather than at effects. This means taking total responsibility for the results you get rather than blaming others for what happens in your life.

One aspect of learning to live at cause is to choose to be in a resourceful state of mind where required. Being able to manage your state is core to NLP and there are many techniques for allowing you to access resourceful states from the past so that you can access them in the present. A useful tool to help you access these states is anchoring, based on the work of Pavlov, it is hugely beneficial to leaders to be able to draw on positive experiences to help them handle difficult situations.

Learning to live at cause and being able to select resourceful states when you need them will help you achieve some fantastic results. NLP also offers many other techniques which allow you to align yourself consciously and unconsciously and then learn how you enhance your communication to make your message of leadership resonate with others.

LEADING OTHERS

When leaders are at their best, they challenge, inspire, coach, support and enable others to act, they model the best way, and encourage great performance.

To lead others you certainly don't need to be perfect yourself, take a look around how many leaders today have exemplary attributes and behaviours, not very many. But to be a great leader there are some essential features which can help you.

Vision - know where you want to lead people to? If you don't have a good sense and understanding of this in your own mind then how can you expect others to follow you?

Coach don't just manage - in bringing others with you it is important to develop and encourage them in the way that a coach would. Create a space where it is possible to make mistakes without causing significant damage, thereby allowing people to take manageable risks and through that they will learn and grow.

Working Relationships - All the above points are easy if you have built good relationships with your team. But good relationships aren't necessarily about 'liking' people, they are about two-way communication. If NLP is about anything, it's about helping people communicate more effectively.

Modelling the Way - Leaders who say one thing and do another have very little credibility and rarely generate a willing followership. Some people will take the time to evaluate how consistent your behaviours are with what you've identified as your core business values. So pay particular attention to how well your actions reflect with what you say you believe is important, your actions must be congruent with the values.

Unless you show people how you value their efforts motivation will fade. There are many ways to recognise individual contributions and one of the most simple is to say thank you and provide feedback. What people want from their managers is to understand how well they are doing, which means providing constructive feedback as well as acknowledging what they do well.

LEADING ORGANISATIONS

Leading larger groups of people requires you to be able to 'lead yourself and your team'. To succeed in today's business environment, leaders also need to ensure that they demonstrate flexiblity and the flair to adapt to change positively and quickly when reacting to market demands. In addition, leaders need to understand how to communicate effectively with shareholders and have the ability to build new partnerships to grow and maintain their business for the future.

To be an effective leader, you don't need to necessarily hold the spectrum of competencies required to run your whole business, but we do believe that if you are skilled in the foundations of NLP, lead your own life according to a set of principles and have the ability to motivate a team, you are probably capable of being able to select and inspire a group of senior people who have the diversity of skills to complement your own.

By driving a team who collectively have the skills to succeed in today's economy, who share your vision and demonstrate the company values, you will have set yourself up for success and will be an inspirational leader of the future.

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