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Online Dating Tips For Men Guys Love

Guys love to date and girls love to be asked out. Even those people who hate relationship love to date and that's a fact. Whether you are dating just for fun and excitement or dating to develop a good relationship, dating is a sure way to pacify your mind and heart.

Before you start asking someone out, you better "look your best; "have yourself a clean cut, shave and cut your finger nails because anyone can easily get turned-off when you don't know what personal hygiene means.

"Shop "and wear clothes that are comfortable to wear. Don't even try wearing something that doesn't fit on you if you don't want your date to end up in disaster.

"Use deodorant", body spray, perfume or whatever that will make you smell so masculine. (Don't ever use strong smelly stuff)

" Smile. "Believe me smiling can do wonder.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Angelica Jackson - Flirting Tips For The 21st Century
C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles
C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report

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Dealing With Tests From Women By Stephen Nash

EVER FEEL LIKE A WOMAN IS TESTING YOU?

For example, say she RUNS LATE MORE THAN ONCE WHEN YOU FIRST START DATING.

And when I say late, I mean OVER 10 MINUTES. If someone arrives to a date, and is less than 10 minutes late, no big deal. If it is more than 10 minutes...I take note.

Once is excusable. Twice? Not cool...

Most guys don't say a word, fearing upsetting her, and losing her "highly valuable" affection.

Why guys value someone who disrespects them over and over is a chronic problem - something we're going to try to remedy TODAY.

What is really happening here is - she is testing you.

If she had a hair appointment with a highly prestigious stylist...would she be late? Unlikely.

She wants to see, subconsciously, how you are going to react. She wants you to prove to her that you are secure and confident enough to take the lead and set your boundary.

Women feel a level of insecurity that they wish men to satisfy. Healthy women feel a small amount of this. Unhealthy women feel a larger amount of this.

If she tests you once, no problem - that is normal, and healthy.

If it continues, (remember, more than once) - she aint the one...leave her for the chodes in the club.

Biologically, testing is necessary. She is screening you to see if you are "man enough", so to speak to help her feel secure. In my work with guys, I cover this at length, as it is a cornerstone to having mastery with dating and relationships.

THE KEY IS TO HANDLE TESTS LIKE A GENTLEMAN, while delivering a clear message that her lateness is unacceptable. Here is EXACTLY how I handled such a situation recently. I hope it helps you out.

I was awaiting her arrival at the cinema. At 10 minutes past, I got in line for the tickets and purchased my ticket while being sure that I could return it if necessary. At 20 minutes past, I crossed the street and sat in a caf'e, and started making some calls (other women, of course, on the list - I was a bachelor at the time).

She phoned at 25 past, and was out in front of the cinema. Here was our conversation:

She: "I am so sorry Stephen, I got stuck at work late. I am here, where are you?"

Me: "I am across the street in the caf'e, just doing a little work"

She: "Oh, OK, I will be right over"

Me: "Be sure to get your ticket, I have mine - I was afraid they would sell out, and not knowing if you were going to make it, I only purchased one. Go ahead and get your ticket, and I will meet you over there in 5 minutes, gotta pay my bill"

She: "Ok, see you in a minute - again, sorry I was late"

See what I did here? Instead of changing the slightest bit of my schedule, I went forward without her. The plan had been to meet at the cinema, and then go for coffee. So, that's what I did.

Also, because she was late, she now had to furnish her own ticket (this being the second time she was late, I was definitely not paying for anything).

I did all of this without getting angry at all, or having to say a word. (HUGE - don't "waste" energy on negative emotions EVER with women)

And, guess what...she was never late again.

Once you make the wallet pay for the lateness, it seems to stop. I eventually lost interest in her, and her lateness was a major contributor.

I advocate action over words anytime. Why say something if you can indicate it with behavior?

If you can tell her that her lateness is unacceptable by simply behaving with self-respect (continuing my evening with or without her) this is much more powerful than:

"Uh, you know, when you're late, it really upsets me. I feel hurt and slighted.."

This may be true, but it is not a MASCULINE solution to the problem. The masculine solution is to be kind, yes, but to also be autonomous.

So, if she is late, when she arrives you have taken a call and have to make her wait a few moments before you can see her. I have even been known to make/take a fake phone call. Feel free to throw in something like, "It is 5:20pm now, let's talk in a few hours OK?

This shows her that you have carried on with your business and your life.

Making her stand around for a moment or two, feeling the discomfort caused by her lateness is GREAT and works way better than you standing there like the headmaster checking his watch - LAME.

In conclusion, the best way to handle tests from women is to simply sidestep them, they are a small bump along the road of your life.

Keep living make her catch up. If she continually tests you, then you better get stern with her and say something like:

"Let me be honest with you. I like you - OK? But, when you are late, which happens often, I lose attraction for you. Being reliable is high on my list, and I really want this to work out. I tend to lose interest though when issues like this continually surface."

By telling her that you lose attraction for her (which is true, right guys?), the stakes become very high suddenly. Women pride themselves on being attractive to men, and if her behavior is causing that to diminish...well then, you've just found the sweet spot.

Or, just cut her off...she lost her shot at you.

Ultimately, we are all seeking healthy, positive, and productive relationships with people. If someone continually disrespects us by being late, or by behaving immaturely, we have to step back and ask - why am I involved with her in the first place? And, an even better question...why am I even still attracted to her?

Always feel free to walk away. There are single women everywhere who will treat you with respect and who will be on time to see you.

Try this out in real life, and send me any questions or experiences you may have with it. What you experience and discover can be of benefit to us all.

Good luck!

Stephen

P.S. Check out my ebook, How To Get A Girlfriend.

Suggested free e-books to read:

C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles
Michael Hall - Dealing With The Downside Of Nlp

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Chasing The Night

Happy Friday! Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night?

This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!

DAVID: Men will spend half of their adult lives 'ctn' - they spend half of their lives chasing the night. If you think about it, guys go out on a Friday night, and there's always one or two guys that want to have fun and talk to their friends. The other ones will be looking around the room, they'll have one drink and get impatient because there are no women there - even though they haven't really met women very often anyway - and they have to run to the next place. They spend the whole night trying to figure out what the best place is.

BUT THE BEST PLACE - WHICH IS SO IRONIC - IS WHERE YOU ARE IN THE FIRST PLACE. If you spend the time laughing and having fun with your friends, you'll start attracting people. Women will wonder why you're having such a good time and you're not being like the typical male chasing the night.

There's another scary term - on Saturday nights, there are guys that are 'ctw' - chasing the week. They don't have any skills to go out and meet people during the day, and they haven't gotten that concept yet, and they realize that if they don't make something happen on Saturday night, that they have to wait all the way until next Thursday or Friday night for something to work.

So then Saturday night has an even more desperate energy, because men are walking around chasing the week. You can see the desperation in their eyes, you can watch it. You know you've done it, and you've seen guys that have done it even more. There are packs of guys that are walking around your neighborhood, in the bars, looking around like this - they can't even concentrate at all.

It's the guys that are twisting their heads around in every direction. Think about it - when a guy is doing that, it's not attractive to a woman! A woman is looking at that guy and thinking, holy shit, what is wrong with him? The guys stare like this, and they don't say anything, they start drinking a little bit - to get their liquid courage on in order to chase the week.

The pressure is building because they know that they screwed up chasing the night the night before, and then usually when they get home after chasing the night or the week, it's like they have to come down from it. And then you realize that the woman that you saw at the beginning of the night was the one you probably should have talked to in the first place, and then you think well, what could I have said? It's usually something that comes to you from a simple observation. It comes to you four hours later because you're no longer in this unbelievable mode of chasing.

It's a very funny thing. One great exercise to do (and I do this all of the time) is to go out on a Friday night and look at the guys chasing the night, and then look at the women reacting to those guys - just be an observer. When those guys finally go up and approach a woman, watch how quickly she rejects them. She's noticed him from all different angles - she's noticed the way that he was looking, she noticed that he didn't walk over right away.

THERE'S A REASON WHY WOMEN GO OUT IN PACKS: they're protecting themselves from these 'ctn' guys. If they went out alone and they had the guys chasing the night or the week all over them, forget about it! This poor woman would be bombarded with annoying guys all night long. So that's where the chilling out comes from.

ROBERT: It kind of reminds me as well of stock trading. It's like you're chasing the price as opposed as waiting patiently for it to go, which I know will happen eventually, but you chase the price. And I've lost a ton of money doing that!

I admit it, I've done it a few times, and I know what I've done wrong. It was against the rules; I know that you're not supposed to chase the price. You just shouldn't do it. But you're thinking, oh, but this time, and it never works.

DAVID: And the stock market is all psychology. It's all human emotions and psychology. So you're looking at a candle chart, and you see your entry point. You don't get in because you don't believe it, even though the formula tells you to get in. Everyone else is watching the same formula, and you still don't get in. It goes up a little bit, and you still don't believe it, it goes up a little bit more and you start thinking, holy shit, if I would have just trusted the formula, I would have already made $.20 on it!

So what do you do next? You think it's going to go down, but it goes up a little bit more, and then what do you do? You, and the other people who were chasing the price, go in. At that point, the stock goes up a nickel and you say to yourself, oh, it went up! Then you see the candle and you've got that candle that doesn't know what direction it's going to go next. That's you!

You're in there, and then what do you see next? Things sink! Because everybody who got in 30 cents ago when they were trusting the whole process bailed out, and then you're stuck, chasing the price once again. That's how you lose money. You think, well, it's going to go up again - but you already missed the boat.

I did the same thing when I was trading. I wouldn't trust it, and then I would get in too late, and then I'd be there during the downward slope. It's a great analogy.

ROBERT: Yeah, I've done it. Just this year, I've done very small trades as an exercise. I was just trying to be very observant. And it went in my direction. It was really about discipline. But as soon as I put in some big money - I kept thinking, it's not going to work, and I'd get out, and it was very premeditated.

And then when I did something that was "against the rules," I would think, oh, I don't know what I'm doing, and that would work. I learned I needed to be observant, and be patient.

DAVID: Well, think about this: the thing about stock that really goes against all of the rules is that this stock is really a beautiful woman. The little stocks you mastered - these are women that you're not attracted to. And the bigger stocks are beautiful women and you treat that big stock differently. Really, you needed to treat them the same way, because the same rules apply every time. It doesn't fluctuate, and it doesn't change. That's a great analogy, and a great lesson.

ROBERT: It is. No matter what you say to yourself, the rules are the same.

DAVID: Life doesn't change. The formula in life is the same for everything we do, except for our social life and the stock market, where we've done other things.

Todays video will teach you how to lay off the CTNchasing the night mentality and be more of a natural with women.

LEARN MORE FROM DAVID WYGANT BY READING HIS FREE DATING TIPS AT HIS WEBSITE AND BY DOWNLOADING HIS BOOK "DATE TO WIN".

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Kate Ludeman - Coaching The Alpha Male
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Catholic Dating Becoming Increasingly Popular

Internet has not only changed shopping world but also changed the life of people. Either you talk about dating or marriage, everything is happening over the internet. Today, we are discussion about catholic dating and services. This religion is very much related or close with Christian. The idea of dating has been formulated by companies and online websites so that people can come under one roof and meet with each other. The basic aim behind the service is to provide a comfortable environment to people to find suitable life partner.

Catholic dating services are used by many people around the world for different reasons, like for fun, entertainment, serious relationship, marriage etc. Needs are different but way is same. The best part of online service is that singles can meet with any number of people around the world. in case, you find someone as per your compatibility level, then these sites can help you to meet with each other as well. So, if you are still single and looking for a better life partner, then do try the services of dating websites.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Love Systems - Daytime Dating Bonus Master Yor Dating Life In One Year
Shawn Nelson - The Dating Resource Report
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Signs He A Mama Boy

You began dating a man you thought was perfect, but with every passing day you began noticing something strange about his relationship with his mother. You're beginning to get a sneaking suspicion that your man is mama's boy.

While the signs that he's a mama's boy range from mild to downright creepy, if you're guy displays all the following signs, you might want to rethink your future with him.

SIGNS HES A MAMAS BOY #1

HE TALKS TO HER EVERY DAY

It's one thing if your guy talks to his mom once a day because she has no one in the world but him (which is still a scary thought), but if he and his mom have telephone conversations multiple times a day to gossip or just tell each other the little things that girlfriends usually tell one another, head for the hills.

What makes this so frightening is the fact that when anything significant, or insignificant happens in his life, the first woman he thinks to call is his mom, not you.

SIGNS HES A MAMAS BOY #2

HE REFERS TO HER ALL THE TIME

If you make him pancakes, he tells you how his mom makes them (and, of course, his mom's are better); if you rent a movie, he mentions that his mom never liked horror films.

At every turn in your relationship, his mother manages to creep into the conversation to the point where you begin to get nauseated. But you shouldn't get nauseated. You know why? Because his mom would never do that.

SIGNS HES A MAMAS BOY #3

HE COMPARES YOU TO HER

You thought it was cute when you began dating and he told you how much he loves and respects his mother. You even thought it was charming when he told you that he'd consider himself lucky if he married someone like her.

But now that you're in it, he's beginning to really push the envelope by comparing everything you do or say to the way his mother does it. Of all the signs that he's a mama's boy, this is one that will wear thin quickly.

SIGNS THAT HES A MAMAS BOY #4

SHE FEEDS he pays her to take care of him.

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Carlos Xuma - Secrets Of The Alpha Man
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Five Fundamentals To Get Girls Today By Sean

The dreaded death of mojo.

We all face it.

You wake up and the first thing you think is "I have to go back out there and do it again."

Doesn't matter if you've been picking up girls your whole life, or if you just started. The strong pull to do nothing never goes away.

Entropy. The tendency of ordered systems to fall apart and settle into inactivity.

Sloth. The desire to stay in bed and do, as we all learned from "Office Space," nothing. Absolutely. Nothing.

But the girls are out there. They are there every morning getting coffee, waiting for trains and busses, walking to work, walking their dogs, doing stuff. Commerce. Activity. Life.

And you know that when you are having a good day, it can be easy to just strike up that flirty conversation and spark something. We've all had at least one night, maybe with good friends at a party, or a bar you really like, when it seems like no thing to turn your volume up a little bit more and run your silly fun little lines on the cutie who catches your eye.

We all already have mojo. But we don't control when it's on, and when it's off.

What do you do on those days when your mojo is sleeping?

How do you wake it the fuck up?

Here's are the 5 Fixes I use to get myself going every day.

It doesn't matter how long you've been doing this or how good you are at it. Remember, the best pickup artists in the world don't even think of it as pickup. It's not something they do. It's just something they are, every minute, every day.

Do these five things, and you'll peg your switch to ON all the time, and you'll never let an opportunity pass by again.

1. SAY HI TO PEOPLE AND GIVE SMILES EVERY SINGLE DAY.

Simple smiles and greetings, especially in places where that is not expected, change the way you feel. When you talk, you are out of your head. And your head is a very comfortable, but lonely, place to be. If you're only motivation for doing pickup is to bust a nut, you'll never be happy. But if you can consider that being a nicer, friendlier person is a gift to others, it takes the pressure off you.

2. FLIRT BEFORE NOON.

I don't wait for Friday or Saturday night to roll around. I schedule visits to places every morning where I know I'll run into cute girls, so I can keep approaching and keep re-inforcing good habits and good results.

The nice thing about flirting with girls in the daytime is that all you need is one banter line, and you are almost always going to get a smile.

3. WALK, AND WALK WITH A PURPOSE.

Be aware of your body language every day. If you catch yourself feeling nervous or stressed, get up and walk around. Force a smile onto your face. Breathe deep and slow. Get moving.

4. WHEN IN DOUBT, JUST MAKE HER SMILE.

Every passionate relationship begins with the man doing something to make the woman feel good. There are lots of ways to start this banter and teasing, sexy eye contact, or absolute sincerity. If you get stuck, or in your head, stop thinking about it as a pickup, and set your goal just at making her smile. Be selfless. You are a gift you share with women.

5. GO BACK TO BASICS.

Instead of trying to run a scripted 20-minute script, just do the pieces. Go back to warmups. Stop cute girls and ask them what time it is. Willfully lose yourself in the city so you can ask directions.

And when you really need a karmic boost, go with the old standard sincere compliment.

"I know this is a little random, but I had to tell you that you are very cute."

Start it by acknowledging that what you are about to do is a bit unusual. This shows your social intelligence and puts her at ease. Then tell her just what you think. Every healthy man finds attractive girls cute. There's always something there that catches her eye. And you know she spends most of her time and money working on it.

So tell her. Be a man who makes his world better, and you will find the world making things better for you.

These five fixes may sound a little too basic. I know, you want the super-advanced magic words to make panties just melt right off her thighs.

The truth is there are no magic words. There are no shortcuts, and there is no new technology that makes girls want sex more than ever before.

There are only fundamentals, and guys who do them well. Make these fundamentals part of your daily routines, and watch your results, and your total happiness, skyrocket.

It's pure pickup karma. The more good you do for others selflessly, the more it comes back to you. Stop worrying about how to get her home that night or destroy her boyfriend or overcome her socialized resistance.

Do it for her, not for you. You will get more comfortable and more confident, and then when you see that smoking hottie across the bar and know you have to wade through a see of stalkers to get to her, you'll have your mojo running high and a real smile on your face.

Suggested free e-books to read:

David Lieberman - Instant Facts How To Get The Truth Out Of Anyone
Thundercat - The Ultimate Secret To Getting Good With Women
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Date Like A Surfer By David Wygant

I RECENTLY SPENT A WEEK IN HAWAII, and while I was there I learned how to surf for the very first time. Now I've got to tell you that Wygant on water, ice or snow tends to be comical and is a site to see. If you've ever seen me tumble down a mountain or sporting ice skates or roller blades, then you know why.

So when I got to Hawaii and Alison suggested that we go surfing, my first thought was "no way," but I told her "Sure, whatever, I'll go with you" because I am a trooper... and because my ego wouldn't allow me not to go. So when we get there, I don't expect be able to get up at all. Now, I've normally never had trouble 'getting it up' in life, but in this situation I did not expect to get up.

Our surfing instructor, Ron, was a really cool guy and he began to explain everything. I'll provide a link to his website for any of you who make it to Hawaii one day. As Ron was talking to us, I was in another world thinking "There's no way I am going to be able to get up on that surfboard. It's not going to happen."

Not only that, but I had to overcome my fear of Bruce, the electronic shark in Jaws... and weren't these the same waters where that 14 year-old surfer girl recently had her arm bitten off by a shark? Look, I've had a fear of sharks ever since I saw the movie Jaws. I was 13 years-old when Jaws came out, and that was just one of those growing up movies that impact you a lot.

Meanwhile, Ron continued on the sand to teach us how to surf. He showed us how to get up. He showed us how to get down. He taught us everything we needed to know to go out there in the water and do it.

So I got on my board in the water and was going through waves thinking "Damn, man, I am not going to be able to do this. I'm going to get my ass kicked in surfing." Then something interesting happened.

I get on a wave, stand on one knee, put one leg up, and all of a sudden I think to myself "I am going to get up on this board!" Then I rode it in just like that. A couple of rides later, I stood up and I took the entire wave from start to finish.

It felt amazing to be able to see the mountains that were all around, to be able to see the beautiful Hawaiian sky, to be able to smell the water, and to be able to see the crystal clear water all around me. I was addicted at that moment.

What does this story of my first surfing adventure have to do with dating - or with why you should date like a surfer? Well, surfing is a lot like dating.

In surfing as in dating, there are a lot of ups and there are a lot of downs. There are some times you catch that perfect wave as your board starts inching into the water, then the next thing you know you're tumbling all over the place having no idea when you're going to be able to get back up again or how you're going to feel.

Surfing is just like dating because every time you get your ass kicked by a wave and tumble in the water, you have got to get right back up on that board and try again. You have got to do that in surfing, because you never know when that next wave is going to come that is going to take you all the way into the shore and make you feel victorious.

You have got to do this in dating, because you never know when the next person you run into in the supermarket or the coffee shop is going to be that person with whom you create magic. It's amazing that dating (and life) are just like surfing.

I surfed for four days while I was in Hawaii. I had a great time. I went out there and kept trying. On some days I was able to get up more than I wiped out. On some days I was able to surf better than I was on others.

On my very last ride of the trip, I jumped off the board in a weird way and jammed by back. It was as I hobbled my way back onto the plane that I realized that surfing and dating are no different.

In surfing there will be some days you're going to ride the wave and feel great, while on other days you won't. In dating there will be some days you're going to meet some great people and think great things about a possible connection with someone, while on other days you're going to realize things aren't going to work out with someone and that you have to start all over again.

What you need to realize is that every day and every wave give you a chance to start anew. When you get on a surfboard, you never think about the previous wave or your last wipeout. All you think about is getting up on that board on THIS wave. You take in the beautiful Hawaiian mountains or focus on the waterfall in the mountains above you. Then all you do is look straight ahead, crouch down, get on that board and ride that wave into shore.

You need to have that same mindset about every date you go on and about every relationship you have. You should never thing about past dates. Don't think about past disappointments. Treat each date as you would treat a new wave. Every wave is different and gives you an opportunity to start anew. Similarly, everyone you date is different, and you can start anew every single day. That is really amazing when you think about it.

To Ron, I want to say thanks for a wonderful time surfing in Hawaii. You were a great instructor!

Todays video is all about what to do when you have a crush.

Get out of that friend zone forever!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Steve Harvey - Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man
Adam Gilad - Interview With David Wygant

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Dont Change For Me

Today's blog is going to get you really thinking. Let me ask you a question: Are you lazy when you are in a relationship? I am not talking about a relationship with someone of the opposite sex.

I am talking about in your relationship with yourself. Do you get lazy with yourself?

When I say 'lazy with yourself,' what I mean is do you know you have something about yourself you want to change but you don't change it due to fear or laziness?

Do you realize that there is a negative connotation to the word change? Whether it was your mother, your grandmother, your father or your favorite aunt, somebody probably told you never to change for anyone (and that people should like you just as you are).

We've heard that over and over again throughout our entire existence. We've heard "don't change for anyone" and "people will love you just the way you are."

Well, do you know what I say to those things? Wrong!

I truly believe that change is good. Change is strong. Change is positive. Change is necessary!

Say you meet someone and get into a relationship. People will tell you not to change your core. You know what? You had better change your core. It's called growing.

To me, change means growth. It means that as a human being, I am evolving more deeply than I ever have before. It means I am evolving in ways I never thought I would evolve. I'm experiencing new things, new feeling and new emotions.

Change is great, but we have such a negative association to the word. You cannot change a person, but you can show them how to grow. When someone doesn't want to grow and make changes, that is a person who is going to miss out on a lot in life.

I am very different than what I was 22 years ago. I want to constantly keep evolving.

Perhaps if we used the word "evolve" instead of "change," more people would be open to it. Everyone needs to get rid of the negative connotation to the word change.

When you're in a relationship with yourself or with someone else, you should not ever change for someone but you should evolve with them (and for them). When you evolve, you grow.

When you refuse to change, you become stagnant. When you are stagnant, you get the same lousy relationships with yourself and with other people over and over again.

It's something that all of us need to learn. We need to learn how to embrace growth and change, because it's a wonderful thing.

Think about it in sports terms. Look at Eric Mangini. He is a terrible coach because he hasn't changed his ways at all. He's young. He's stupid.

He acts like he wants to be Bill Belichick. He thinks he is Bill Belichick, but yet he hasn't learned, grown, or changed his losing attitude. He's carried his same losing ways from the Jets to Cleveland.

In life, you must learn from experiences and change. Change is good. Change means evolving. Change means that you are willing to see things through the eyes of another person.

All of us have messages for each other. I am just a messenger for a lot of you, here to teach you some lessons. The lesson this time? Realize how powerful change can be.

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Louise Andree Saulnier - The Yoni Massage For Women
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Online Dating Tips For Men Guys Love

Dealing With Tests From Women By Stephen Nash

Stephen

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Chasing The Night

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HE TALKS TO HER EVERY DAY

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HE COMPARES YOU TO HER

SHE FEEDS he pays her to take care of him.

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P.S. Check out my ebook, How To Get A Girlfriend.