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Even Colin Farrell Gets Rejected You Got It Bad

Just picture this
You get your courage up and approach that 10 in the club. You figure, what's the worst that can happen?

You talk and banter, then a guy comes and stands next to her.

You say, "Who is this guy?"

She says, "He's my boyfriend."

"You've got the most beautiful girl in the place, and you can't blame a guy for trying."

The boyfriend says, "You tried. Now get out of here."

Wow. Ok, so he's protective, I would be as well. You head out and chat to some other women. You wake up the next morning.

You google your name plus "rejected".

YOU GET 44,300 RESULTS.

That's what happened to Collin Farrell this week. So next time you think you've got approach anxiety, just remember that no rejection you face will be as bad as his was. Of course, where there's risk, there's reward. There's no doubt that Collin Farrell cleans up like only 0.000005% of the world's male population can.

P.S. WHO THINKS THAT SHE WOULD HAVE GOTTEN DOWN WITH COLIN HAD THE BOYFRIEND NOT SHOWN UP?

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I Can Get My Ex Back Your Breakup Fixed

I Can Get My Ex Back Your Breakup Fixed: "Now just say this quietly to yourself, or shout it, or yell it at the top of your voice... whatever works for you, but do it. - Sent using Google Toolbar"

"I CAN get my ex back."

Like most things in life, if you really believe you can do something then you probably will.

It's nothing to do with wishful thinking or any Zen-like qualities, it's simply a matter of human nature. If you truly believe you can do something then you won't give up easily.

You'll try harder, find new way or methods, seek help. Whatever it takes to reach your goal.

That belief applies to almost everything in life. And guess what? Getting your ex back is no different.

If you believe you can get your ex back, then you'll probably succeed.

That's because you'll go to the trouble of finding out how to do it. You won't simply give up just because it seems too difficult or because you don't know where to start. We'll get to that in a minute...

As you're reading this post then you've been searching for ideas or new ways to rekindle all the love and attraction that used to be present in your relationship with your ex.

That last bit is a giveaway.

You managed to attract your ex once, so you should be able to do it again.

And this time it should be easier. You have so much more knowledge about your ex that you didn't have the first time around.

That's some advantage to have if you think about it.

You not only know what they like, you know what they don't like. You know their passions, desires, fears. And, you know their friends, the people they like to hang with.

Getting your ex back is not about trying to convince, or force, them into it. It's about encouraging them to reach that conclusion all by themselves.

If they decide, on their own, to give your relationship together another chance, then it'll stand a much better chance of lasting.

This is what you want, isn't it?

You should be concentrating on:...

Read the rest here - I Can Get My Ex Back.

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What Girls Like The Hot But Insecure Socialite

Have you ever been played hard by a girl...? Today, let's take a journey into the mind of a hot but deeply insecure girl to see what's going on and how she games the men in her life. If you want to pick up women, well... you might want to stay away from this one, or at least go in with eyes wide open.

The hot girl in question is a composite of three girls I've known, and we'll call her Sarah. _Every_ girl has a little bit of Sarah in them - this composite we're drawing is simply the most extreme iteration of it. Here's the backstory, taken from my experiences with the three girls.

Sarah is a smart girl - far more intelligent than she initially appears. She plays the role of ditzy little girl with aplomb, and half of my friends still refuse to believe that her IQ could possibly break the triple digit barrier. But when it comes to men, she knows exactly what she's doing. I've seen her destroy several guys (myself included), and I watch her keeping a steady flow of prospects in the pipeline. The guys she dates are good looking, successful, and usually, they fall hard.

I believe that deep down Sarah is also a good girl who wants to find a deeper happiness than her life today gives her, but as it stands, I'd hate for one of my friends to get caught up with a girl like her. And should you ever find yourself in a situation with a Sarah of your own its only fair that you understand exactly what's going on. Personally, I've dated two girls like her before, and was in a wickedly hurtful relationship with one of them. Let's see if we can get into Sarah's head.

The first thing you have to know about her existence is that it is fairly shallow. Moment to moment, she seeks constant emotional and physical stimulation in the form of drugs, sex, cigarettes, text flirting with guys, etc. And unlike most of us, she's able to get away with this because, well, she's a hot girl in New York City or Los Angeles or Las Vegas who knows how to play the game.

Sarah also likes to party. She's out two to four nights a week, sometimes hitting multiple clubs at once, and she's always at the best and hottest new club. Promoters love her because she rarely brings guys along, and has a great personality; fun, ditzy, playful, giggly - everything you want in a girl when you're out at a club.

But when she meets a guy in whom she's interested, her demeanor changes instantly. First, her voice softens up to something akin to a baby's cooing and her eyes become doe-like. The innocence comes across as capitulation, and flips a big switch in a man - his desire to take care of a woman.

But she also knows how to turn on the sexy... with a narrowing of the eyes, a crossing of the legs, a little bite of the lip - and she's attractive enough that few men are going to turn her down. I've watched her do it to four randoms in clubs, as well as a friend of mine just to prove to me that she could.

This 1-2-3 combo results in paralyzing crushes. Fun wild social girl to fawning little bunny to sexual mistress.

She goes after professionals whenever possible. It is important for her ego that the men she's dating have certain qualifications.

And as she starts dating a man, she's full of push-pull. One morning she's in his kitchen, wearing his oxford shirt and cooking breakfast for him. She tells him she'll see him later that night, then flakes out and heads to the club with me where we'll dance the night away.

The guy starts texting her... "Baby, where are you?" The next morning, she meekly apologizes, shows up for sex, and pulls the guy deeper into thinking that if he tries just a *little* bit harder, she'll change for him.

And this is the genius - mad or otherwise - in how she handles a man. She is incredibly compliant and giving when she's with him, to the point he thinks he "has her". She is very emotional and "falls in love" quickly; temporary as it may be, the guy starts to believe it too. Her emotions are like a hurricane: as soon as they comes, they can also be gone.

And a guy wants to believe that he's going to be the one who tames her, that she'll be his domestic Debbie. Then, once she's felt that the guy has invested enough into her _(and critically, ONLY then)_ she'll disappear.

And here's the funny part - it works best on the guys with huge egos. The most successful, the best-looking, the ones who pick up women with ease, and the ones who eat women for breakfast. She's sexy enough that she can make them work hard to get her - fancy meals, tables and bottles, whatever she wants, really - and once they've invested enough and then "won", it becomes part of their ego that they're dating the girl who everyone else wants but who no one can have. The moment she pulls away, that massive ego begins to lurch. I've watch guys cancel travel plans, leave work early, and go into debt trying to pull this girl back into their world.

Does this lead to good relationships? Absolutely not. It results in fights, guys showing up at her house (and mine) yelling in the street for her, and lots of bad feelings. But it works for her for two reasons.

First, all the drama is essentially emotional stimulation. Whether she's feeling really good and excited about a guy, or whether he's blowing up her berry with pleas and grievances, it is making her life interesting.

Secondly, while she is an intelligent girl, she has some *very* deep issues. Insecurities she's not comfortable sharing with a guy with whom she's romantically involved. She knows (instinctively) that if she truly opens herself up in that way, she's putting herself in a position to be hurt. And she's so insecure about who she really is that she's just not going to let a guy who's having sex with her have that kind of power over her.

What's the lesson here for us guys?

Well, most importantly, do your homework and follow your instincts. A key concept in attraction is investment: the more you invest in something, the more of an emotional attachment you develop for it. And falling in love with Sarah is kind of like buying stock in a promising but volatile tech company - if it is a hot thing that is poised to take off and generate massive returns, you might get emotionally invested, and fail to get out when you should. Every now the company puts out a press release with incredibly good news, but since you've never met the management team, you don't know if its accurate. And believe me, if a man is dealing with Sarah on a superficial or ego basis, he definitely hasn't met management.

Perhaps you stated dating a girl and had people who knew her tell you to "watch out for her," but you've defended her and said "no, I know her in a way that other people don't," or something else like that. Well, management is hidden away in the board room and letting the PR and customer service people do the talking, and you bought into the lines they're feeding you.

What else? Don't let your ego get caught up in determining whether she'd be a good girl for you. It is not your job to be her Dad, brother or burly protector. Sarah has great people in her life who are looking out for her, and just because you're dating her her doesn't mean its your responsibility to save her. Yes, if she sees your interest waning, she'll work hard to get it back. But if you're getting any signs that your girl is half-heartedly committed, that her insecurities and/or abilities with men are driving her to seek constant stimulation, then you just have to keep your eyes open. One day, when she's had enough partying, she'll find a solid man and latch on tight, and there will be no doubt in his mind (or hers) that she's in it to win it. But until then, if there's smoke, there's probably fire.

The things that drive Sarah are present in everyone's head. When you're looking for a girlfriend, or just want to pick up women, its important to be able to see a woman for who she really is. I've been in relationships with girls who I thought were loving, honest people. Something went wrong, then all of a sudden I'm seeing parts of Sarah come out. The girl is pushing me, pulling me, and I'm telling myself "wait, this isn't who she is! She's the girl I was dating a few months ago... I just need to bring that back out of her." Problem is, because her perception of me and the role that I play in her life changed, the person who she is when she's dating me changed too.

Lessons learned. And hey - if you know yourself and who you are, you know what you'll accept, what you won't, and you'll be able to give yourself fully and in love when the right girl comes along.

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Patti Stanger Engaged

Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger engaged!

Famed Millionaire Matchmaker PATTI STANGER from the Bravo show is finally engaged to her boyfriend, real-estate executive ANDY FRIEDMAN.

PATTI STANGER always said that "if he doesn't ask for your hand in marriage by the firs year, the ring goes up by one carat for each year after that." PATTI STANGER received a sweet 4-carat ring, and they had been dating for 5 and a half years, so I'm guessing she's pretty happy about it.

"I feel like it should have happened years ago, so I'm kind of shocked," PATTI STANGER "Us "She and her beau were in Maui, Hawaii, celebrating her birthday, when a black swan swam in wither 4-carat diamond ring.

PATTI STANGER has made it clear that she wants to have a low-key affair. She even suggested that she and her fianc'e run off to Las Vegas and get it done. But he wants a big, elaborate shindig. And deep down, I'm pretty sure that that's what Patti really wants too.

The surprise engagement happened in Maui, Hawaii on her birthday. The 4-carat diamond ring was brought to her by a black swan.

My theory is this: PATTI STANGER will use this wedding to promote herself on her reality series by bringing her millionaire clients and hundreds of gorgeous women to her reception. And yes, she will pull a Star Jones and get everything for free just for mentioning it on her show. Genius.

The wedding is expected to happen in 2010.

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Cameron Diaz Dating Jason Lewis

After her breakup with BRAD PITT-look-alike PAUL SCULFOR, CAMERON DIAZ had an easy time finding another boyfriend in none other than the absolutely "Sex and the "hunk JASON LEWIS.

37-year-old CAMERON DIAZ and 38-year-old JASON LEWIS were spotted having a very intimate dinner at a sushi restaurant in Venice Beach on August 17, 2009.

You might be thinking"'t a man and woman have a nice dinner without the world thinking they're dating? Sure, they can, but onlookers claim that CAMERON DIAZ and JASON LEWIS weren't being discreet with their affections.

Seems the couple have been friends for a while now and perhaps only recently discovered how incredibly sexy the other was.

Either way, CAMERON DIAZ and JASON LEWIS look really great together and they're both very athletic, so it all works out for the best.

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How To Deal With Cockblocking By Roosh

I was in a bar and found myself standing near a cute girl who was dancing with some guy. I wanted to observe for a few seconds to see if they were experiencing a love connection or not before I made a move. I must have taken too long because when I was about to open my mouth, the girl's fat friend gets in front of me and says, "You want her, don't you? You so want her. She's hot isn't she?"

She said it with such disdain. It put me on the spot and I didn't have a good comeback. I said, "No hablo ingles," a terribly weak response. I simply wasn't prepared.

Even after the fact, there wasn't an obvious correct move. If I say yes then I show my cards right away, but if I say no then I set myself up for something like, "So why are you looking at her? Why are you talking to her? It's obvious you like her."

This cockblock was so effective that I had a dream about it. After some thinking I adapted it for use on other guys. If a guy is moving in on a girl you are interested in, ask him, "Do you like her?" Your tone will be neutral, like you are just curious.

If he says yes then you can put him in a weak position by saying, "Well you should buy her a drink then!" If he buys her a drink then he's just another beta in the bar and if he doesn't buy her a drink then it looks awkward because he just verbally admitted his affection for her.

If he says he doesn't like her or weasels out of answering, then say, "Well there are a lot of girls here. I'm sure you will find someone who you like if you keep trying. Don't give up!" He's done. It's like you are giving him relationship advice.

He is going to scramble and say something like, "Oh, um, I'm not here to pick up girls." Now he just put his dick in a box. Without even raising your voice or having to get tough, you can suck the game out of any guy with very simple word plays. This technique worked on me even though I spend the bulk of my time thinking about these things.

It's okay to get bitched in the field. But it's not okay to get bitched in the same way twice. A great thing about experience is that you put yourself in a lot of situations that you will see more than once. Your down time is spent thinking about how to react for the next time it happens, because chances are it will.

That's all it means to have "tight" game--to be ready for whatever is thrown at you. It's about refining and improving what you do even if a line or technique "works."

So I thought about what to say the next time a fat girl asks me if I like her friend. I'll say, "Why do you ask, do you want me to like her? Because I like everyone!" Then I'll put my arms around both girls and say how I'm having a great time. All this is done with a huge smile on my face. I want to squash her negativity with a fun party vibe that makes her look really bad if she continues cockblocking. I think this is much better than saying "I don't speak English" in Spanish. And if this doesn't work, I'll just think of something else.

It's through this experimentation mindset that I went from being a chump who didn't get laid to the guy that pissed off other guys in the clubs. I'm sure they thought.. "How is THAT guy talking to her?" (If you've seen my picture you'll see I look more like a mountain man than stereotypical hot stud). Before then I couldn't get laid to save my life, but I was dedicated and put myself out in the field, experimenting on everything from approaching girls and talking to them to when to call and what types of places to take out on dates.

I recorded my final results, the techniques THAT WORK, in my book Bang. It took a long time to write but I'm happy to have created a reference guide that other guys can count on.

If you find yourself in a place where the girls you want are passing on you, then I think the skills I teach will help you out. For more information about my "More Lays In 60 Days" resource, click here.

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Romancing Men Ideas

I admit it; I'm a sucker for romance. I enjoy having women do something special and unique for me. I like to know that when I tell them how much I love root beer floats, they're listening and prove it by making me one while I'm watching the game.

Romancing men is not difficult; unfortunately, most women think that they don't have to do any romancing. Rather, they expect us to do all the work while they reap all the benefits.

Well I'm here to tell you that not only is romancing men a fantastic way to keep your relationship going strong, it's also great for letting him know that you appreciate him. Plus, romancing men may, in turn, garner you some top of the line romance down the line.

So, are you eager to romance your guy, but just aren't sure how to go about it? Well, that's what I'm here for ladies, so sit back, relax and let me feed your wonderful brain with ideas.

ROMANCING MEN IDEA #1 PAMPER HIM WITH THE SMALL STUFF

It doesn't take a new car for a guy to know that you love him. Just pay attention to what he says he enjoys and get it for him. For example, some time when you're watching TV, he might say, "Oh, I remember those cookies from when I was a kid, I love them."

Well, the next time you head out to the grocery, look for those particular cookies and buy them for him. He will think the world of your gesture and will pay you in kind.

ROMANCING MEN IDEA #2 KEEP YOUR CLEANSING RITUALS SECRET

Although this isn't actually something you would be doing, it is something you should avoid doing at all costs. Something changes in a man when he sees you using pimple cream or bleaching your mustache. If you want to ensure that he thinks of you as sexy, you will want to avoid performing these womanly rituals in front of him.

Even if you live together, there are things that should be relegated to the bathroom and should not be seen by your man at any point. And yes, even if he farts and scratches his testicles in front of you, you still shouldn't submit him to your bad habits.

ROMANCING MEN IDEA #3 SURPRISE HIM

If he typically arrives home from work and the two of you have dinner together while discussing your days, spice things up one day and shock him by greeting him at the door with a sexy outfit on and loud, seductive music playing in the background.

The newness of the situation will arouse him (not to mention, your outfit), and he will keep this romantic moment in his mind for years to come. The point is that you want to excite him every now and then and remind him how much you adore him.

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Getting Comfortable With Your Voice By Herbal

YES! Week 3 of the newsletter. I have tons of great questions from you guys, but please keep sending them. I like having a wide variety of topics to pick from.

A little aside before I get started. Today I was hanging out with a couple here in Panama. We were talking about traveling, learning languages, eating food, and all that sort of stuff, when all of a sudden the guy in the couple brought up the game.

They had some friends that were into it.

"I'm into that stuff too," I said.

They mentioned the book and I told them I'm one of the characters. The girl's eyes lit up.

"TELL ME ABOUT IT!"

I looked at her and I realized it was a VERY familiar look.

Why?

Because that's the look girls ALWAYS give me when they hear that I know about game. And this isn't just because I'm a "Q-List Celebrity" from The Game. I used to just be a dude trying to learn about girls and it got the same reaction.

Girls LOVE this stuff. What do girls care about more than anything? Being social. If you KNOW stuff about that, they LOVE hearing about it.

So, look I used to be SUPER embarrassed about pickup. I bought a crappy paperback "manual" about it and I literally hid it in my safe. My best friend and I both randomly showed up at a lair meeting once in Austin, having no idea that the other was into pickup.

We were both too embarrassed to tell the other one about it.

Anyway, my point is this - learning about pickup is AWESOME. Girls respect it IF you respect it. If you're embarrassed about it, they will think you're lame. Try telling ONE girl this week that you're learning pickup. My guess is that she'll be intrigued and probably try to help you.

Ok, moving on to today's letter.

> Hey Tynan, how're you doing in Panama?

>

> Here's a little bit of background on me;

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> My childhood when it came to Relationships, was pretty much zero, just few friends and never talk to girls. High School was more of the same, I was very introverted, shy, and just a weirdo (I was so weird that I didn't roll around with geeks, I used to be alone).

>

> My issue: My voice. Its not a problem of vocal projection, but rather a problem of subcomunication, while I talk, what I convey is: Im a nice guy, Im needy, My voice sucks and so do I.I want to change that, I want to convey DOMINANCE, and POSITIVITY, have a charismatic voiceWhen I hear my voice recorded In a tape I do NOT hear the voice of a MAN who has it all together and is good with woman, what I hear is the opposite.

>

> Thanks man

>D

Hey D,

It's going great. I was actually just talking about this subject the other day with my friend who's traveling the world with me. We've been making videos about our travels and he thinks he sounds funny on them. In fact, if you watch our latest video at www.lifenomadic.com you'll hear him making fun of himself at the end of the tape.

Here's the thing: NO ONE likes the sound of their voice on tape - AT FIRST. When we hear our voice in our head while we're talking, it vibrates through our bones and makes it sound lower.

So every single guy on this planet's voice sounds less "manly" when recorded than it does when they talk.

I used to hate my voice too, but then I started rapping. At first I would actually blush when I listened to my own songs because I thought my voice was so terrible. Yeah, I would blush even if NO ONE ELSE was around. So I know what you're talking about.

Then I just listened to my voice a lot and finally got over it. Now I think I have a fantastic voice - which may or may not be true. I'm going to send you a copy of Make Her Chase You, which includes a one hour recording of me picking up some girls, so you'll get to hear what I sound like.

So, my first bit of advice to you is to record your voice every single day for 15 minutes and listen to it. This will take 30 minutes out of your day, but you can do it in the car or while you're doing something else. Eventually you will probably like your voice.

Next, your voice WILL ALWAYS reflect YOU. Everything you do reflects YOU. So the real question is how do you solve the PROBLEM instead of the SYMPTOM?

You stop being needy and you stop being a nice guy. That's the only way. How do you do that? Learn the right techniques and then get out there and get experience talking to girls.

I focus a lot on becoming confident and positive in my book, so I think that's going to help you.

My book also comes with a 30 day bootcamp where you get a lesson and a mission every day. Before I send you a copy of it, I want you to promise me that you're going to do all 30 days with no excuses and personally e-mail me your results every day. I bet that will solve the problem by itself. Fair enough?

Until next time,

Tynan

P.S. If you're not totally happy with your dating life and you have a specific question you'd like answered, or a situation you'd like help with, send me an e-mail to weekly@makeherchaseyou.com. If I pick your e-mail for my weekly newsletter, I'm going to send you a free copy of ALL of my products to get you headed down the right track.

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Even Colin Farrell Gets Rejected You Got It Bad

Just picture this

I Can Get My Ex Back Your Breakup Fixed

Read the rest here - I Can Get My Ex Back.

What Girls Like The Hot But Insecure Socialite

Patti Stanger Engaged

The wedding is expected to happen in 2010.

Cameron Diaz Dating Jason Lewis

How To Deal With Cockblocking By Roosh

Romancing Men Ideas

Getting Comfortable With Your Voice By Herbal

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